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Guys, I can't recall how long your plan A and plan B timelines were? K, I know you moved out and plan B'd, how long were you gone? Is there anything true and magical about the 6 month affair timeline? I am holding off any plan B efforts until that 6 month mark at least. I have the feeling any real effects of plan B for both of us will be more positive for our marriage at that point. I am grasping at this last straw, since I am still plan A'ing and until after the holidays and then hope my plan B will help me be prepared to move on or really have my wife consider giving us a chance (in midwest, I am hoping the cold and depression will affect her fantasy).
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izzy:<P>For me the timeline wasn't too far off. From the point that I discovered the affair, it took about 9 months to end. I was in Plan A for 5 months, Plan B for 2 months, and then Plan P (Plan A with pregnancy) for about 2 more months).<P>If you can hold out through the holidays with no lovebusting, that'll be great. It's a very tough time of the year to deal with an affair.
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