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I did a major shift in my life on all aspects, health, education, personality, career, knowledge, fitness, etc...
My wife remained on the same level, now we feel like each of us lives in a different world, I even feel as if she hates what I did and doesn't make a single thing to improve, in fact, she's in a very bad health/fitness level, bad career, stopped learning, etc..
This made the marriage a disaster!
Any advises???

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Originally Posted by bitlost
I did a major shift in my life on all aspects, health, education, personality, career, knowledge, fitness, etc...
My wife remained on the same level, now we feel like each of us lives in a different world, I even feel as if she hates what I did and doesn't make a single thing to improve, in fact, she's in a very bad health/fitness level, bad career, stopped learning, etc..
This made the marriage a disaster!
Any advises???

Have you read Dr. Harley�s basic concepts? How long have you been married? Any children?


FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.




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