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Gosh, is your citizenship in the US dependent upon your marriage to him? What are the pros and cons of being married to him, outside of being in love with him? Yes I got Green Card by marriage, if next year in July we will not be together (like real marriage, in love) I have to leave the US or apply for waiver, and prove I have my whole life here and they might let me stay. So pros are: i don't need to worry about my status, don't need to worry about bills if both of us are working, we can still work together, we both love to travel, he pay my health insurance from his job Cons: I dont think I am able to forgive him, I will always think hes going to go back to her or cheat with someone else, I will think he lie to me every single day I agree that if you stay married to him, you will be facing an on again, off again affair. What have you decided to do?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Gosh, is your citizenship in the US dependent upon your marriage to him? What are the pros and cons of being married to him, outside of being in love with him? Yes I got Green Card by marriage, if next year in July we will not be together (like real marriage, in love) I have to leave the US or apply for waiver, and prove I have my whole life here and they might let me stay. So pros are: i don't need to worry about my status, don't need to worry about bills if both of us are working, we can still work together, we both love to travel, he pay my health insurance from his job Cons: I dont think I am able to forgive him, I will always think hes going to go back to her or cheat with someone else, I will think he lie to me every single day I agree that if you stay married to him, you will be facing an on again, off again affair. What have you decided to do? He decided for me, he left weeks ago
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Did he move back with his ex?
What are you going to do? Have you spoken to a lawyer?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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