When was the last contact between your WW and the OM?
From my knowledge this happened on March.16 when I played VAR recording in front of my brother, OMW and his MOM present along with my wife and OM offcourse.
Until that point it was safe for them because I did not have proof and they denied that they were meeting; I did the DNA Patrrnity test 1 week after that and my wife suspected that something big was gonna happened so she confessed ahead of result that Cousin was the Sperm donor and i was not the father.
I allowed OM to come into our life; his sole purpose was to improve our life and bring positive experiences. He did that but my wife took it wrong and she tried to repay his good gesture by becoming emotionally involved with him.
This all thing happened with my support and I shielded my wife from my and her family and I protected her for all this time because of my love for her; I will now take the OM out of our life because I love her even if she hates me for it.
I will guard her dignity; yet I will keep her accountable; I know she is a tender soul and I have been difficult on her; I have learned certain things from these experience and I will put it to better use and improve our married life moving forward.
I come here to learn and challenge myself; I know I am triggered and I need to find peace and stillness in myself as these has affected me profoundly.
I have learned more about marriage and relationship in last 1 year than rest of the time, and my attention is constantly looking for answers and way to make it right.
Your feedback will be greatly appreciated as everyday is a new day and new challenge along the way.