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Hi all, has anyone had any experience in marriage coaching with dr Harley or steve telling them to keep their spouse at a distance or stay separated until the spouse had showed enough of a pattern of change and once proven, then telling them they should reunite or move back?
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Hi bestintentions,
I had long experience coaching with Steve Harley. I have also listened to Dr. Harley on the radio show for many years. What you describe sounds like either Plan B during an affair, or could be instead general advice for separation (without Plan B and without an affair) to encourage behavioral change.
Can you describe your situation?
Last edited by Blackhawk; 11/30/24 12:55 AM.
Me: BH
Marriage: 25 years
2 kids
D-Day 5 Sept 2011
EA w OM started Fall 2010, PA w OM Spring 2011, OM died end Sept 2011
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We are separated and have been since June. No infidelity or affair.
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So then why are you separated?
Me: BH
Marriage: 25 years
2 kids
D-Day 5 Sept 2011
EA w OM started Fall 2010, PA w OM Spring 2011, OM died end Sept 2011
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