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I was wondering how many of yall have been seperated for any length of time or even divorced; Ended up reconciling your marriage.<P>I'm the betrayed. I want to reconcile, but my W is reluctant.<P>What made you decide to try again?<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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I'm wondering the exact same thing!!!!!<P>Please help us out here.<P>Thanks. <P>God Bless you and yours,<P>Sheryl W.
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Reconciled here. since last December 5. The waiting paid off!
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my H was separated from me, but never told me...i thought he was away at work, living in the "company condo", but mostly he was with OW, until she called me to find out there was no divorce happening.<BR>anyway, what made H decide to come home was our beautiful children...i just had a new baby, and though he did not want her, he is now totally in love.<BR>if you don't have children, this obviously wont work, but good luck getting your W home.<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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I found out about stbx's affair in May, we went to joint counseling thru June, She moved out and in with om in July. They lived together late Sept when he dumped her. she did not move back home so we dated and went to joint counseling thru Oct. In early Nov. she admitted she was still seeing om so I agreed with her to end marriage.<P> I attempted to reconcile because I still loved her. I gave up on reconcilation because she does not love me and did not attempt to even work on marriage at either of the two different joint counseling sessions. She has also made no attempts at improving her side of the marriage. I feel that I have done all the work on improving the marriage. Now I can no longer trust her and can only pity her.
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I found out about my H's affair March 99. We seperated April 99 for 2 months.. H moved in and signed a lease with ow.. June 99 H moves back home.. We have been together ever since.. He did have some contact on and off for a while, but it is slowly dying and we are really starting to do a lot better now.. It has been very difficult to deal with this while he was in withdrawal, and especially because i found out about some contacts... But we are getting there.
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To make a very long story short. My wife kicked me out for OM. The OM reconciled with his W and she let me move back in after several months. I would like to say that it is going great but it's going positive very very slowly. Sometimes progress seems to grind to a halt but I am working on it. It is very hard for both of us at times. I wish I could be more positive about it but we are back together.
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my Wand I have been seperated for 11months. We have recently sarted talking again, thinghs have pretty well so far. up and down you know. I was just wondering about other people.<P>Thanks<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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