Thanks for your response to my Plan B questions. In light of everything else that has happened this morning (evening your time) I'm going to try to do a chart or 'something' of where I am and what I want.<P>I feel that because of 'consider this' I have to go back to square one. I'm so confused again. I read all the responses and agree with them all, my plan of action has to be what I feel comfortable with, and what I feel I can do, but how the hell does one know ??? There's no answer I know, it just helps to say it.<P>Australia is great - I love it. We emigrated from the UK when I was 5, and I've been back to the motherland quite a few times and would even love to live there (UK) for a few years, but Australia is home. I love the diverse countryside, the people, the climates (both hot and cold) and most of the attitudes. We seem to have so few problems over here compared to the rest of the world - perhaps that's because we're still so young and don't have the population numbers of everywhere else. Let me know when you're coming !!<P>I HAVE to go shopping now, I have to get out of the house after that disturbing post from whoever it was. I'll try not to let him/her ruin my day. Now, what can I buy .........<BR>(on single parents benefits not too bloody much !!!!)<P>Take care, and big hugs for you<P>Jo

bonnet,<P>you are a wonderful person. don't you ever forget that. <BR>what is happening in your life right now, is without a doubt, the worst thing you could possibly go through. it's a living hell.<BR>my h moved out in july. he filed for divorce in august. i went to plan b in september.<BR>don't let 'consider this' response, evern entere your thinking anymore. it is one persons opinion, and he/she doesn't know you or your situation from adam. try not to let it bother you.<BR>the people on this forum are angels. they have helped me in my most weakest, desperate times. you will find that most everyone hear is very sympathic and very caring.<BR>we are all here to get through this mess, and to hopefully rebuild our marriage.<BR>you don't have to make any decision right now on what to do. just take it slow. don't make any off the cuff decision.<BR>please e-mail me if you want. you sound like such a wonderful person. we can swap little one stories (my 2yo has been the reason i wake up most days-she is such a kick)<BR>take care and keep in touch.<BR>God is watching you. He knows your pain. He will comfort you and heal your broken heart.<P>God Bless you,<P>Cheryl<P>cc7315@yahoo.com