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remember a couple weeks ago when H said he went to sandiego, and just happened to pay for OW's hotel in mendocino?<BR>well, his cell bill had a call from mendocino that weekend.<BR>it's over, over, over, over.<BR>i'm off to call a lawyer, guys. <BR>i can't go through this crap anymore.<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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Pretty sad tale, but PLEASE look before you leap.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A><p>[This message has been edited by Chris (CA123) (edited November 16, 1999).]
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thanks, chris.<BR>i'm being very calm, for me, under the circumstances.<BR>looking, not yet leaping.<BR>in my heart, this was the answer i needed before we figured out where we were going to move.<BR>i have the strong urge to find an apartment...for just me and the babies...<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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Love was Blind,<P>I am so sorry that you are being subjected to this.<P>I agree with Chris though. Tread slowly. Think and think again. List all your options and then decide. I think I would also confront your husband. If it were mine I would. <P>When I found out about my husband and OW I was going to play games and trap him. I talked to my therapist before he came home. Thank God! He was with OW when I got the phone call. I did as she advise and confronted him. I have never regretted it.<P>I will go light a candle for you in prayer. I wish I knew what else to do.<P><P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>
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LWB,<P>I know you were waiting for the facts before you got angry.... And you got 'em. <P>Don't you leave YOUR house. You have 2 small children, and you will be way better off staying there as long as is possible. If anyone needs to go, it is him. <P>Going to say a prayer for you. <P>Do not blow up at him, be matter of fact. Decide what you want to do and what you CAN do before you say anything to him. He knows the truth already, he just doesn't know that YOU know.<P>You hang in there, and don't leave YOUR house! <P>TNT
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LWB,<P>I know you are furious. And you have every right to be.<BR>But, I agree w/ Chris. Proceed w/ caution. Get yourself together, first.<BR>I also agree w/ TNT. Don't you DARE leave the house. If someone needs to go, it needs to be him.<BR>Also, I think if he does leave, you need to go the Plan B immeditately. <BR>You h has not idea what he is doing.<P>Saying prayers for you.<P>Cheryl
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thanks, guys.<BR>he has mentioned taking our spare couch to his office (to sleep on...they have a shower there), so maybe i'll suggest that to him. and he also wanted me to move to the house in hawaii, but i told him frankly that i did not think we would work out, and i wanted a california divorce, so i will definitly not leave the state.<BR>i'm still being calm.....<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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LWB-<P>I know you are hurting so much right now. I wish there was something I could do.<P>I still think you hubby is a fool. He doesn't know what he is doing (well, none of them do until the lights come on)<P>Take care yourself and your wee ones. They need you.<P>Cheryl
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