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My H told me before the divorce was final that he didn't miss me at all. How is that possible? Even if he doesn't miss me, what about the kids? I don't see how you can just disconnect from your wife overnight. Will he ever miss his family?
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Probably. But the more delusional, arrogant, and selfish he is by nature the longer it will take. The question that he will have to face by then is: "Will you and the kids still miss him?"
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nonplused,<P>You bring up a very good point. I have wondered myself how he will feel as time goes by and the three of us are still a family while he is on the outside looking in. Do most betrayers feel lonely and isolated eventually? I would think you would get to the point where you felt no one cared for you at all anymore. I would rather have my kids love and respect than that of another person.<P>AD
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One of my kids said, after their father left but before discovery, that he must hate me more than he loves the kids.<P>I will never understand how someone would choose to be with another adult, no matter how much they loved them, over their own children. <P>
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