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When I try to search for forums to help, I find those that are just for hurting. Maybe some could get these people to understand?<BR> <A HREF="http://www.affairs-help.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/000105.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.affairs-help.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/000105.html</A>
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gag, cough, sputter.....Yukkoooooo<BR>Isaac, i only read a few and couldn't muster an ounce of pity because they are still lost. Yah, they need HELP but does not appear they are interested in that-only in the 'poor me' attitude.
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cl,<P>I guess it's the betrayers that are so incredibly naive and oblivious to what's going on! It frustrates me that they don't even realize. This particular thread really made my jaw drop!
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Good god, please don't lump me in with women like that! It hurt my head just reading that load of crap, and believe me when I say that my face is still all scrunched up! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>That was like passing an accident that you <B>shouldn't</B> look at, but curiosity makes you look anyway.<P>There are some good people who make a terrible mistake like having an affair. Me, for one. <P>Blech!! That was awful. <P><P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P>
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new beginning, I agree with you. You're not being lumped at all. This is one segment, one post that Ive found that I couldn't believe. To be honest, I was actually thinking that this post could be inundated with others to get them to think.
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sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick sick <P>yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck<P>
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Ick!<BR> Wish I hadnt read that, started not to but then when I got started ,I kept on till I worked myself up ,oh that kills me! That girl<BR> hasnt even met the guy! This could be my husbands other woman, she really thinks he is being honest? His wife is a witch and a warden? They never have sex, hahahaha. Shes<BR> talking about me! Where is that at? They actually have places like that? Ok i'm going to try and calm down, sorry folks I'm just freaking. i'm going to bed now, scrunch up<BR> real close to my husband and kick him really really hard ,then pretend i'm asleep.
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I went futher into the other forum and found a descussion group for people who's spouses were having affairs. In the one topic that I looked up(sorry I can't remember the topic name) not too many people in there were helpful. The basic advice was how to find a good divorce lawyer and change the locks on the door as soon as her H left. It seems sad that in todays society ther aren't more things like this(MB) forum that focuses on building up marriages instead of tearing them down. <P>------------------<BR>I am holding my heart out to you and ask only that you receive it and give me yours in return.<BR>Nicole
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I could not believe some of the posts at that site. There is a true pattern to affairs. They should come here and look around so they could see what they are doing. I wish I had found this site before hand.
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man, some life these people have.<BR>ive noticed a certain attitude of "live for the moment" amongst OW's (heck, i almost thought one of those women on the site was my H OW!).<BR>anybody else pick up on that? do MEN ever just "live for the moment", or is it just not an issue for them, since they can "compartmentalize" better?<BR>just wondering....<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>
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LWB - <P>living for the moment, yes I noticed that.... <P>My husband says he just wants to "live" - and have fun - why does life have to be so serious - why don't I just live.....<P>You know what he's been believing after reading that thread....<P>uggh<BR>And..... They really are living a fantasy, aren't they!!!! Unbelievably S T U P I D...<BR>
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The sad thing is that they actually believe it. I can't understand that they don't have some type of snap to understand that they're being "had"..??<P>It boggles the mind. <p>[This message has been edited by Isaac (edited November 19, 1999).]
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ACK!!!!!<BR>That site is supposed to be geared toward helping married couples work through the pain and devastation of an affair - and they allow THAT crap on there?<P>I'm with you all ... gagging and all!<P>I CANNOT believe that a person can NEVER have met her "lover" face to face and believe every lying word that he hands her!<P>AAAAAGGGGGHHHH! blech!!!<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I believe in miracles...<BR>
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