<BR>I tried to bring up my other 3 posts on page 84 but I guess I didn't do it right! Anyway, My H had told me the name of the W and showed me her almost 5 months ago. Whenever I saw her I would get shaky and nervous.One day I even won at the casino but saw her and my eyes filled up and I got so sad.Now last Friday after I kept questioning him he finally told me thats not the woman. He gave me the real name and said he only picked th other one because the real one he hadn't seen working there anymore and I kept telling him to show me her.So at night we went to the casino and I asked a worker about her, she is on leave and hasn't worked since July.All these months I've been nervous being at the casino for NOTHING she,s not even there.I don't understand why he didn't tell me 5 months ago instead of lying all this time? Why did he even lie about the name, I would have asked then and felt better all those times I was at the casino? I know I kept after him to point her out but the real name would have helped me. How can I trust him and believe him again? Any thoughts about this?