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H is trying but I want to walk away
#32474 11/19/99 08:52 PM
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I just don't seem to care how hard h tries or what he does I just am almost disgusted by H latley. I really don't know what to do but I don't think I want this life with him anymore, It was all just a lie anyway. <BR> HOw do I know if maybe that is what God wanted me to do in the first place, bvut I was not listening....I just cannot imagine ever feeling safe again after the pain he has caused. When do you know in yourself that you should walk away. How miserable should I make myself to make this work??????
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One thing that is typical with change, is that things can usually get really bad before they start to improve. <P>God wants ALL marriages to be healed, restored. He HATES divorce (Malachi 2:16).<P>Keep it up. Maybe you need a therapist who is willing to help you implement the Harley principles from "Surviving an Affair".<P>Pray to God for strength and endurance to do His will. I'll be praying for you, too.<P>God bless you and your spouse.<P>
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I know what you mean, about being tempted to walk away.<P>But, really - recovery must take place, whether you stay married or not. Divorce and the pain from it is longer lasting, and has final and forever consequences to it - unless you reconcile.<P>So, why not give it all you got, to heal from recovery WITH your husband. <P>I think if you made a realistic list of all the pros and cons, you could make a logical choice - to really try and regain those feelings for your husband.<P>Good luck

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