Thursday, my H took care of the kids all day at home, and when I got home he was more cheerful and chatty than I have seen in a long time. Yesterday he arrived to take them for the weekend to the OW's, and was tense, distant, and cold. This has happened on several occasions - he will be relatively human, and the next time I see him, whether it is a few hours or a few days later, he is even colder than usual, and frequently he has done something to push the divorce through in the interim. I don't know what he could have done now, but I am worried. Maybe he was just feeling guilty, but so often he acts like that when there is something he is hiding from me. I almost hate to see him pleasant, because it has been one step forward and ten back so often.