We need some input into a major decision that will become necessary if we continue. We are corresponding via e-mail and phone and find that we are almost perfectly matched in all major compatibility areas. However, (there always has to be one of those, doesn't there), we are both about forty and have separate goals and lives a thousand miles apart. Our priorities, lifestyles, personalities, capabilities and desires are almost identical with one major issue: climate. For me to move to his location requires major changes in my goals which I am willing to make, but it also requires moving to a very cold (to me; very wonderful to him) climate. I have always had an unusually low tolerance for cold. A major component of our mutual lifestyles is being able to work together outdoors (ranching). I don't know whether I can acquire a tolerance of the climate high enough to allow us to do the very thing we most are attracted to: working together. If he moves here, he would have to change longterm goals which also involve his family. Any input would be appreciated. <BR>