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hello dr harley ! i was hoping that u could help me w/ my problem ... im not yet married but i live w/ my fiance . things have been so great .. up until he moved in ... hes distant now .. when we lived apart we were always cuddling or what not . needless to say i got used to that . now it really bothers me that he doesnt want to cuddle w/ me at all really ... not even after sex . he says I love you but other than that he hardley shows me how much he loves me .. he tells me that even though he doesnt want to cuddle that he loves me just as much . i also communicate very well through letters and when i do he responds not w/ a letter back but w/ a simple verbal response . so i never feel completely relieved of things that bother me . I just dont understand how he is so relaxed in the relationship and were not even married yet .
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I understand how you are feeling - the same thing happened to me. And I can tell you from personal experience that it doesn't get any better, just worse. I am ignored now. He says he loves me, but you could never guess from his actions. Try and see if he will do some of the questionniares and things on this site. I find they help me, but it really needs to be a joint effort. My H looks at it, then dismisses it - just like everything else. It takes two to have a relationship work you know.<BR>
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