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This is a long story, I will try and give a condensed version.<P>I am currently divorced (3 times) and am currently looking at re-marrying my 3rd- wife. I have attempted to reconcile with my 2nd wife a couple of times but it simply does not work. (Still not 100% sure why) <P>I do love them both very much. <P>My question is basically what is every ones thought on pre-marital sex with my 3rd ex-wife? We are not living together and do not plan on it til we are re-married, unless situation changes with my housing.<P>
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theJeep,<P>Wow, that was the short version. I could comment on this from the perspective of my own religious beliefs. That however will likely be irrelevant to you soooo.... Let's look at this from a purely logical perspective based on your experience. When you have engaged in sex outside of marriage did those experiences enhance the relationship with that partner? If you later married that partner did the fact that you had premarital sex reinforce the relationship or weaken it. If you felt it had no bearing on the relationship why not abstain this time and give that a try. If you had pre-marital sex with all of your ex-wives why not try a different approach? Just a thot.<P>Mud <BR>
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I am a little confused--you say you have attempted several times to reconcile with ex wife #2, but it doesn't work. Are you attempting to reconcile with ex #3 out of genuine love or because ex #2 is not interested?
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Sorry for the mix-up........I am reconcilling with my 3rd wife out of PURE LOVE......I do love her VERY MUCH.....and the reason we broke up the first time was because I honestly felt I did not give my 2nd wife a fair chance. But I have determined that it just simply is NOT going to work with her and she agrees. So we have gone our seperate ways. <P>Thank you<BR>JEEP
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I am not quite sure what to think about the sex. What struck me was the following sentence. <P>I do love them both very much. <P>If things turned around with the second wife, would you remarry her???<P>It's terribly hard on everyone involved to be married to one and still be in love with the other.<P>Might need to do a little more soul searching first. <P>Good Luck.<P>
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