My counselor told me my ex-H does not see what he has done to me and the children. This is obviously true because he is bouncing around with OW like he never had a family. He told me he didn't understand why we were taking this so hard, divorce happens every day. How can he not see it, I have lost 35lbs and his children don't even want to talk to him when he has visitation. Will he ever see how much he has hurt us?<P>AD