Well look like the OW even though she is (maybe who knows) is not around anymore won!<BR>I wonder if the OP really realize how much pain they cause? All I can wish for her is that one day she will marry and have little children and think her life is so complete, and then her H goes off with an OW. <BR> Well after promising me when I came back here that he could deal with all the pain I have because it was his fault, He renigs.<BR>But of course he would why did I expect anything else this is only the man who turned me and my babies out when he wanted to sleep around. SO he says he cannot make me happy and cannot deal with all my pain, so I guess that means the fat lady is singing. I really don't know how I feel. I guess I want him to fight no matter what I do but that is not fair. And maybe somtimes God does not want 2 people together. WHo knows......... All I know is I am going from MOm to having to find a job live with parents and have no time with my kids and be alone. So Yeah for me< <BR> What a joke that I ever thought we could work through the biggest betrayl someone could do to another.

J -<P>You have my email and ICQ, please let me know if I can do anything for you. I am so sorry and can only hope you find peace within yourself. IT doesn't make it easy, but there are a lot of single moms in the world that do great, but it is a task not for the weak. Sometimes I though I would be a better mom on my own, cause I could stop worrying about H so much and take care of me and them. Who knows .... <BR>I am not going to tell you what you already know! Keep in touch with me and let me know how you are or if you just want to throw up, I'll listen. "throw up" is my phrase for venting! <BR>Take Care - <P>------------------<BR>Mater<P>

JJM,<P>You have a lot facing you right now. I know you will be strong for your children. Who knows why our S's act the way they do? If we could have figured this out, maybe we could have seen it coming, etc. <P>I am pulling for you and your children to have the best life, ever!!! Good luck...<P>Roll Me Away