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#328952 05/22/01 06:36 PM
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I'm getting married in several months, and am starting to have some cold feet. Without getting into details, we have this pattern of her saying one thing, and then expecting more from me, or worse, something totally opposite of what she said. It almost feels like she's luring me into her ill will. She's said that she's just checking to make sure that I'm not doing things just because she asks, but because I want to. I know that women sometimes like to test men, but seeing as how our marriage is coming up pretty quick, I'd like her to have more faith in me. Maybe this is normal, I dunno... sigh... I'm getting tired...<BR>

#328953 05/22/01 08:33 PM
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Tell her that you feel that your being tested by her, and you don't like that. Just tell her the truth, that what you do is for her out of yourself and that's it. There is no reason to question that.


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