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I have been married for a little over 2 years. I was engaged after 3 months and married 9 months after our engagement. There were small issues I had in the beginning such as his future with his job and ways he treated me, but everytime I addressed them he always had the greatest answers and was always so apologetic and accomodating. I truly believed life was going to be a certain way for us with all the answers he gave me. Now 2 years later I am terribly broken. I feel like I made the biggest mistake in my life. I feel like I was led to believe things that never will come to pass. I know he didn't intentionally mean to lie to me he just is all talk and no action. Now I have a 7 month old baby and I virtually am like a single mom. I work and handle the bills and run the household. He goes to work (To the job I got for him) and even though he helps with the household chores, I am responsible for everything. He is so insensitive to the needs I have and even though we have gone for counseling and I have done everything in my power to convey to him how he can make changes, he continues to do the same old things. I truly have done all in my power to make this work. I never believed in divorce and I still don't, but I can't even bear the thought of spending the rest of my life in a marriage so empty. All we do is live together for the sake of our son and finances. I find myself wanting so bad to find someone else who will truly love me and care for me in the way I know I deserve to be treated. I know these are dangerous feelings. I can't help it! I am so frustrated and don't know what to do next. I need some advice.
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