Hi, this is my first time to this site so bear with me. I'm looking for some advice on my marriage rebuilding. My husband and I have been married 3 years, what's strange is that I can't pinpoint our difficulties.....we seem to just not connect and function well together. We love each other and are committed to our marriage (no infidelities, etc.). anyway, He decided to move out in order that we stop hurting each other on a day to day basis. he has been in psychotherapy for the past 2 months. He just moved out 2 days ago. The plan is to start marriage counselling together. My question is that I feel our marriage could be best worked on while we are both under the same roof. This seperation seems to just make us both miserable and we want to be with each other. It feels like living apart erases the 'issues' that cause us difficulties, and it makes me wonder how these things can be worked on if we're not experiencing them. I hope I've explained myself as clearly as mud!! any personal advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm very scared of what lies ahead and yet I don't think we are that far gone compared to other personal stories I have read on this site. cheers.