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what should I do
#329373 09/25/02 02:18 PM
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Not married yet, fiancee thinks I'm selfish and that it's take take take. She says she has to think long and hard every night before she goes to bed if everything is worth it, and convinces herself that it is. But I think the straw has broken the camels back, and I may have said something that made her think real hard about it all. There's many other factors that she isn't alright with in regards to the wedding and family and all, but she puts that aside for me because she wants to be with me. what should I do, she says that I'm not the same since we got engaged, and that we fight alot now compared to when we were dating. I want more than anything for this to work and will do whatever it takes.

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Work on it now, before you get married.Marriage is a serious step and if you're having trouble already, marriage is not going to solve any of it. Have you thought about counseling? Marriage should be thought of as a life long commitment no something that you can just undo if it doesn't work out. PLEASE get your issues taken care of before hand. It will save you both a lot of agony. Even the best of relationships run into problems after marriage. Troubled ones are almost doomed to start with.

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