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i need help on how to get my husband to move back in with me

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Why did he move out?

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i kicked him out and now hes scared to come back because he thinks im going to do it again. and i really miss him and i want to save our marriage

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i kicked him out and now hes scared to come back because he thinks im going to do it again. and i really miss him and i want to save our marriage

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go to your husband--I wish my wife would come to me--first humble yuorself before GOD-confess all you r sins--and ask HIM to give you the words to touch yur husbnads heart--I have been reading, the POWER of a PRAYING HUSBAND by Stormi Omartin--you read "the Power of a Praying Wife"--show him yu are sincere abut praying for him--and give the book that I am reading--and if that dioesn't touch his heart and make him fall down on his kness and be in love with you--then, I don't know what to say--Oh, GOD, I lift this couple to you--I ask that you bring them together-renew them--you hate our loneliness--you made us to have a companion--restore them--I praise your name--AMEN

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Hi Andrea,

One of the things that drew me to Marriage Builders in the first place is the focus on the future. I didn't want to paw through my childhood and my husband's, and analyze how this or that affected us or try to figure out why we became the people we are. That type of analysis has its place, but I needed a real solution, something to DO, a way to move forward. Not while ignoring the past, but while recognizing that it can't be changed.

Regardless of why you kicked your H out in the first place, it is possible to make progress toward both of you feeling in love with each other again. Start here: Summary of Basic Concepts The links on the left side of the page will give you more in-depth discussions of each of the Marriage Builder's Basic Concepts if you wish.

The way to building romantic love is to increase your husband's "love bank" balance for you, and yours for him. Read more about the love bank in the basic concepts page, then use the links to learn how to avoid "withdrawals" by avoiding Love Busters and make deposits by meeting Emotional Needs.

This is all very generic advice and I apologize for that, I don't know enough about your situation to say more, but I hope these concepts will help you understand what is happening in your marriage and work to reverse it. Best of luck.


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