I have been married for 8 very long months and I constantly think of leaving. My husband and I met over three years ago, went on a couple of dates and lost touch...until last summer when we got married two months later. When he came back into my life I was in the middle of a bad break up, and feeling very hurt. My heart believes that he took advantage of my vunerability.

His proposal of mariage came at a time when I really needed some one in my life. There were so many things I found out about him after "I do" was spoken: His tremendous financial troubles, irresponsibility, violent temper (yes, he has hit me on several occasions), he is possessive, and very jealous. I think it all boils down to making a very uninformed decision. I can not point fingers and do not place blame on anyone accept for myself. Plese advise.