I'm hoping to get some advice about my situation, sorry it's a long one
A year ago my husband returned home from a shopping trip and I immediately knew that something was not right. After a long discussion he informed me he had been texting a woman he had known since school days and had met her for the first time that day. I asked him to stop seeing her which he said he didn't know if he could do, so I asked him to leave which he did. I went through months of pain,hurt and disbelief. We were happy had just had our third child and he was a fantastic father, husband, person! I didn't deal with the seperation well and would become really angry when he visited to the point that we arranged for him to pick up he children from my mother's. The hurt and pain continued and I eventually started getting my life back together.
A few weeks ago my parents went away and he had to pick up the children from my home, we were very civil to each other and agreed to try again with him coming to the house to pick up the children. This went well and things have been great.
Then last night I was upset about something unrelated and he gave me a hug, we just hugged for ages. We then started talking and he said he missed me, thought about me all the time, missed the children, his life, reminded me about lots of little routines we used to have.
What do I do?? He did not ask to come back. Although I don't know what I would say, Yes I love him and want him back but I'm happy. How do I deal with this do, we planned to take the children out on Wednesday and I'm confused as to what to do. Do I bring it up (he's not the greates conversationalist)
Please help and advice would be greatly appreciated
Kaxxy
