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crisis after crisis #330330 01/25/05 05:56 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 5 S sadgrrl Junior Member
sadgrrl Junior Member S Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 5	well, its hard, i panic he panics we will see what happens. right now i am preparing for a hysterectomy. all i can do is try and make sure that there is peace around me. i have to create that right now. we met, i had fibroids, i had abortion because of fibroids, i cant have sex, we are broke, living in a foreign country, now i am preparing for treatment at least for the fibroids that are getting very uncomfortable and my moods are crazy. all this in one year and a half is alot. Its very hard to tell what is reality. i know we had love, the question is has it survived all of the turmoil, and what we have become as people.

Re: crisis after crisis #330331 01/25/05 05:57 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 5 S sadgrrl Junior Member
sadgrrl Junior Member S Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 5	oh yeah, and we got married only four months ago... as well...

Re: crisis after crisis #330332 01/27/05 01:40 AM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 69 N nomoregames Member
nomoregames Member N Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 69	Oh my Goodness! I have fibroids and had a myomectomy 4 years ago. Myomectomy removes the fibroids but leaves the uterus intact. See if you can do that instead of a hysterectomy. As for your mood swings, I can completely identify with that. YOu are a newlywed and so am I. My moodiness caused my husband to ultimately leave. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, get a grip of yourself. If you don't do anything but go in your car alone and cry and scream at the top of your lungs, then come back in check, do it. Men don't like a whole lot emotions and especially unpredictable ones. Talk to a friend and seek help but don't put it off on him. Good men are hard to find so don't lose him over your fibroids. Good luck. Nomoregames

Re: crisis after crisis #330333 02/03/05 04:38 AM
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D-- Member D Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 73	It might be helpful for you to read http://www.shirleys-wellness-cafe.com/urine.htm Also, Steven Covey has a good book called The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families: Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent... Maybe a nearby english speaking church could offer some support. If your husband can see that you care for him, yourself, and the relationship, maybe that would help. D--

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