Well, as for the creams to help men, there are numerous out there. You might do a Google or Yahoo search on "men arousal creams†or “men prolong creams†you will get plenty of hits. Now, if creams are not something he’s into, there are other things to assist a man to prolong his experience. The most used is just a regular condom. Not the thin or pre-lubricated. The point here is to make it more difficult for him to get sensation. There are elastic rings that he would wear around (at the base of his you know what) that would keep the blood in that area enabling him to stay longer. There is a spot between is scrotum and his buttocks that if pressed at the point of ejaculation it would stop him from (you know!). This would enable him to continue, but it would take a lot longer for a next time to occur. Plus there are many other options.
Too be honest, reading your replies, it seems that maybe it’s more than just him being too quick. Has he had any other experiences before you? Has he had any bad experiences in the past? Are you comparing him too some one else from the past? Does he enjoy sex with you? Is the rest of the relationship going well? Was this a problem before marriage? Are there things that you would love to experience or want him to do that he’s turned off or will not help you with? Is there something that he wants that you will not perform for him? You mentioned that you tried to talk during but that he did not like it. Did he express it for you to stop or not doing it? Is he a religious person? Is his way more aggressive (meaning done quick and turn over)? How is his thinking about women in general? Is he attractive and is he attracted to you? Does he show that he likes in women (preference in some parts of the women body). Does he have some friends of the opposite sex? Does he get excited quickly and often (in other words if you get too close too him he seems to be ready)? Does he seem to know what he's doing when you are together?
The best thing is when both partners are in agreement to experiment with each other and on each other to please not only themselves but also their partner. Making sure you have plenty of time, with the right atmosphere (candle lights, soft music, etc..). Taking your time and being slow, with each other. Actually avoid intercourse until the very end, just touch, caress, squeeze, kiss, rub, massage, make every touch be a spark. Maybe you can even use some assistance with your needs. Since a women sometimes takes longer then a man, vibrators (and other things) would help you, and in turn it might even help him seeing you being pleased.
