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After I hung up from H. I drank two little 4 glasses of wine. I am still upset but numb.<BR>This whole thing is crazy and I feel crazy. If I didn't have this board and you good people to talk to I don't know what I would do. Right now I feel this is the only lifeline I have to any sanity at all. I read the posts and read and read. I'm thinking of going for a long drive somewhere before H gets home. REALLY don't want to look at him right now. Sorry to be so negative. Please don't be mad at me, but I guess I expected too much too soon from H. What esle is new.<BR>Being sarcastic here. Sorry.
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It's ok. But, do us a favor, don't drive right now, ok?? Keep writing until you get it out of your system.<P>It's so hard, what you're trying to do. And you deserve a little impatience. Just work through it, get through this day moment by moment.<P>We're all here with you. In fact, think I'll pour myself a glass.<P>I'm thinking of you.<P>Lori
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No keys with the WINE. No drive unless you call a friend or a cab.<BR>Feel free to whine, be sarcastic, scream, yell, or vent here. Get it all out before h gets home. We have special icons for those posts now, so guess we better use them !
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This is a good place to vent. Pain shaered is pain lessened.<BR>Hang In,<BR>Bill
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Thanks all of you,<P>I am much calmer now. After I posted I felt like a heal for, well, whining. The anger and hurt set in so fast. I guess I should learn to expect that right now. I keep trying to understand H as well as all my feelings and I exploded when he seemed (Once Again) more concerned about him than me. Made Me Mad post describes it all. And you are all so right I shouldn't drive while I have drank anything especially when I'm mad. H came home and I tried calmly to say what was on my mind. He didn't take it too well at first and <BR>name calling insued. Slam went the bedroom door and I am on the couch. Funny, I always thought the guy was suppose to be on the couch. Anyway, he came and (get this) apologized. Inside I felt So releaved. We talked and cried and right now I feel better than I did. He has never shown me much concern and I it's hard to believe he means it. But I do see him trying he just has to learn. Thanks for being there. I'm still hangin in.
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