i have been married for 7yrs.in jan of 2001 my husband left and in not time was living w/ ow and has been there since. at first he said he had no intentions of us getting back together and in june said he wanted us to get back 2gether but hasn't moved out of ow house or doesn't do anything to show me that is what he wants.we are in counseling but i don't see anything positive coming from the situation.we have a 6 yr old whom he pays attention to at his convience.i do everything as far as child is concerned.he tells me one thing but focuses on ow i am frustrated confused and lonely. one minute i want to work it out other times i just want to get divorced.he claims he doesn't want a divorce but does nothing to prove that.meanwhile ow thinks he is gonna divorce.all he says to me is he needs time b/c they work together and doesn't want her to feel bad.also b/c no one at work knows he is married they only know about him and her. he spends all his time with her and on select wkends when he is suppose to be with our daughter his is with ow.he is just so nonchalant what should i do this whole situation is making me crazy i am really bothered by the whole thing and i do think about it a lot and cry at times.i am ok one minute and down the next.he comes around on the first day of camp came for the first day of school and the rest of the camp season/school yr is on me.he never calls our daughter b/c he claims he feels funny calling from that house. i need some opinions help