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Me and wife have been married for over 4 years now last June of 2000 I was sent out or I should say stationed here in Japan and Its been almost 2 years now, but I'm returning very soon this June 10th.......I'm incredibly very happy and excited to see my family again anf to be with them because the life I have experienced here is just like hell I've been depressed most of my time here because I missed my wife and my little daughter. But last April 1st when I called my wife I got a news that totally killed me, she said " I need my space, I don't have no feelings or love for you anymore, and I need to experience the things I haven't experienced when I was single" Its been 5 days now and I'm just totally torn apart inside. I tried to talk to her for both of us to go to talk to someone who will help us save our marriage but she refused to do it. I'm here and she's there in California and I really don't want us to separate or divorce at all. I've talked to our chaplain here and they've been supportive...........her decison just had an incredible devastating impact in my life now......I've been hurting inside, I can't focus at work, I can't think right, and I'm all confused.....right now I'm very unstable and getting to the point of suicide........the thought of life without her is no life for me at all....Please help me.
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hap,
I want to suggest that you re-post your story on the General Questions II site. This is for poems here and it doesn't get very much travel so replies will be sparse at best. The only thing I can say is that I would think that your chaplin or some other such person should be able to help. I would think that these things happen somewhat frequently to people who are in the service and away for long periods.
Like I said, post on the other site. There may well be plenty of people that could help you.
Brw
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Hello there brw,
Thanks for letting me know but I'm kinda new here and I don't know how, I tried to click on the move topic icon but it said only administrators are the only people who can do that. Mybe I'll just delete this and post a new on the other site you told me. Again thank you.
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