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#334859 12/09/02 09:41 AM
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After twenty three years of marriage, my wife decided that she "loved me" but was not "in love with me." What she meant by this, I am not sure. I have pondered about this statement for two years now. She left me on Dec. seventh, Pearl Harbor Day, year 2000, when she left she would not tell me where she was, and until this day she still will not tell me where she lives or with whom she lives. The divorse papers where handed to me two months ago...if she would have had a "good reason" to want out of our marriage, it would not have been so difficult for me. I hurt for my heart has been torn out of my chest by the wife I would have given my life for, she truly meant everything to me, too bad I didn't mean as much to her... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

#334860 12/09/02 09:54 AM
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I'm sorry to hear of your predicament but you've come to the right place for answers and support. You should repost your message on the "Divorcing/Divorced" or "General Questions II" forum for more responses.....Good luck!

#334861 12/16/02 08:56 AM
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Thanks litchfield,I am new to this form, not sure how to do this the easiest way...perhaps I will just post more messages in that specific area you told me about, thanks again!

<small>[ December 16, 2002, 08:01 AM: Message edited by: joelhugginslpo ]</small>


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