I can not thank you all enough. My husband and I are trying so hard. It is a prayer answered. I had just decided I was telling him about my affair, wheter it was gonna make us or break us. By the grace of GOD. It made us. I dont think I have ever felt this close to him. No the withdrawal is getting a little rough, especially when I am on the road by myself. I wonder how his marriage is going and etc. I want to call him abd say you guys need to visit Marriage Builders forum. But I knowo I cant cause that will be contact. How do I get over the OM? I will not allow him to destroy my marriage. <BR>I have heard all about plan A. What is Plan A and how do I get info on it. what about Plan B? I wish you the best. Ill keep you all in my prayers. And thsnk yo so much for the help that you have given me. It is so amzing to me that God sent me to this forum. I just typed in affairs on the engine and MB came up. GOD IS SO AMAZING!!!!! <BR>Miracles never cease do they?<BR>GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!