Hello everyone!<P>OK. I might be opening a can of worms here, but here goes...<P>I'm getting a number of messages from members stating that when they go to post a reply, the reply never gets posted. If that has happened to you, then please make a quick comment about when it happened.<P>While I'm here, the forum has been slowing down occasionally over the past several days. It has been due to a combination of the forum program and increased traffic. Our forum program was written in a programing language that is not well suited for this much activity. I'm hoping the problem will be resolved when a new version of this program is released, which is written in a much better language (C++). Also, the Marriage Builders web site was mentioned recently in several national publications (USA Today was one), which caused quite a slow down.<P>Please continue with the feedback.<P>Steve

this has been a great sight THANK YOU VERY MUCH<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

This has been the best site I could have found.<BR>I have never had any problems posting.

MarriageBuilders was also listed as an excellent relationship site in the Access Internet magazine included in all Sunday newspapers in So California!!!

My H (3wishes) had it happen once, on Saturday November 13th.<P>Hope that helps!!<P>Thanks, Steve...<P>------------------<BR>Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you are among the stars!!

I have had no problems, only blessings from finding the support on this forum. Thank you<P>------------------<BR>eyes wide open<BR>

Great forum. But I have written 3 replys and they have not processed. Disapointing since haven't had time to re summit them.I keep getting that BECCA is not a member then I have to putter around to be acknowledged.Is it me? BECCA

Just happened to me. This forum has been recommended to me by friends (didn't know I was already here.) What a lifesaver it has been!!<P>Thanks a lot.<P>Lori

Had it happen to me twice last weekend. Thank you for this site what a support group!<P>Thanks,<P>Bill

Steve,<P>Thanks for the wonderful forum. It for sure has saved my life and marriage. God had something to do with it too. <P>I have had several of my responses not appear. In the last couple of weeks. Mostly the past week. I actually thought it was me.<P>Now I copy my posts before I submit so that if it doesn't process I can repost. Like someone else said once I've posted I most often don't have time to recreate and post. Also I have had such brain damage sense the affair that I often can't remember everything.<P>Again Thank you!<P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>

still getting gobbled up sometimes, like this am. For the most part I receive the error message "page cannot be displayed" if I post, like a few secs ago. I have to page back to the first forum page, hit refresh to see if my message posted. Usually it has. <BR>Odd. I get this on all 3 computers that I use. My server? How?<BR>Thanks steve!!!

words could never express my appreciation for this site.<BR>Never in my life have I been so down, so disappointed and so lost.<BR>This site, and these people, have helped me with different perspectives, different opinions, seeing that others are in the same situations, some laughs (believe it or not), and the strength to keep going.<BR>Dr Harley, the bottom has fallen out of my world, but thanks to this site and the people who frequent here, I will survive and be strong. I will be OK.<P>Jo

This site is a life saver. I look forward to reading and posting. I have been learning so much and it is the only thing keeping me sane at the moment. Everyone hear gives such good adivce and inspiration. <P>I have had trouble after I post I also have to refresh page to view it. Hope that is a help in solving problems on this site. God Bless you for making this site possible.