Dear Pookie14 and lowestpoint:<BR>THANK YOU for your prayers and good wishes. My H met with my psychologist last night. I confess that I thought their conversation would be over in 30min tops, but they actually had a 2 hour long conversation. After he left (he never knew I was there), she took me in and we spoke about my H's feelings. She said there is alot of pain. She said that he felt that I never gave him the opportunity to be the man of the house because I would depend so much on my family all the time. At this point I understand where I've been wrong and the only thing I want is an opportunity to try and save my marriage. She gave him until Sunday night to think about this. We are going to get together (The 3 of us) to determine whether he is willing to have her help us save our marriage or to simply tell me face to face, "I don't want this anymore". I have been praying and my faith is strong. I know that God is working in my marriage. I printed out the prayers you both sent me and have been reading them as many times as I need to. I'm having personal conversations with God. I am putting him in charge and I'm thanking him in advance for working on my marriage. I know that his power is stronger than any fear, selfishness, and pride that exists in my H's heart. I know that the love he felt for me is in his heart and God's power is the only thing that can that love reappear. I'm not praying for a perfect marriage...I'm aking God in Jesus' Name for an opportunity for us. I'm praying for strength and for the Holy Spirit to touch my H's heart. My psychologist says I should think about ME. I am, but I'm putting God first. I don't want to give up. Please keep praying for my marriage. You are both in my prayers....God Bless.<P>