My husband had at least one affair during our 3 1/2 year marriage. I found out about that in January. It was with this BIRTH MOTHER's best friend. She was 42. My husband was 26. He met his birthmom March 99. It has been nothing but horror since. If he wants to see his birth family, this woman lives in the same house. I have pushed away the entire family because I can't get over it. His birthmom told me about the affair as soon as she found out. He lied about it. He was arrested last summer for soliciting a prostitute who turned out to be an undercover cop. Since then, I found out I wasn't his first like he was mine. (he told me I was). He had been with at least two prostitutes before we met. I thought he was a good Christian man! I have no idea who I married. We have no children, I almost thank God for it. ALMOST. He says he doesn't want God in his life anymore. God took his father (before we met) and he can't get over it. He says he loves me now and knows how important I am to him. It will never happen again. Please pray. I hate this whole soap opera and wish it wasn't my life. You may email me also. goincatty@netcrafters.net<p>[This message has been edited by goincatty (edited April 20, 2000).]

Dear Heavenly Father, I praise You Lord for working in goincatty's life. Thank You Lord for comforting her, and showing her the path You want her to follow. Help her Father, to find forgiveness in her heart. Teach her husband that he must earn his wife's trust. I pray that You will bring her husband to true repentance for his sins. Show him Your truth Father, bring him to his knees, broken, and humble before You. Soothe this man's heart regarding the death of his father. I pray that Your will is done in this man's life, and You will reveal Yourself to him in a mighty way, eradicating any doubt in his mind as to your power, and your existence. Thank You Lord Jesus, we praise You, and only You. IJN AMEN

Dear Heavenly Father,<BR>I lift this woman up to you and pray that you will heal her marriage and her heart. God, I pray that you will press upon her heart the knowledge that while others may deceive us, You will not. Remind her that you are the same yesterday, today, and forever. Your love is everlasting. <BR>God, I pray for her husband. I pray that he will come back to you and turn from his sin. Convict him, God, that you care for him and want to comfort him in his time of grief over the loss of his father. You too are grieved when we are grieved Father, so show this man that you are a God of compassion. I pray that you will work in his life.<P>In Jesus' precious name, Amen.