Friends, I have seen some powerful results from praying this week for H. Twice he was going out and twice I prayed hard, put a request on this board and twice he either changed his mind and stayed home or left and came home quickly and with a friendly attitude. Well, I have just spoken to him about helping with a problem with our pool..which he is supposed to handle but has left neglected. A friend and I labored all day to do what we could and now I need his help. He said he'd see (translation...no, you can do it tomorrow), then he said he'd be going out to a local park later tonight. he didn't say with whom or why, so I don't know if it's friends and sports related or if it's a date or if he's hanging out with single / divorced friends at the younger singles' hangout spot. I just heard on the news recently that the park is where lots of people are going to listen to music and HANG OUT. H is young, but has no business doing that..if that's even what he's going for. i hate to speculate. I have been praying for God to deal with H's heart whenever he does wrong. I know God is aware of his actions whether they are sinful or just in poor judgement. I know He is the only one that can deal with H at this point. Please add your prayers to mine that H will not fall into any temptation tonight. I can understand if he needs space, but he has friends who are encouraging wrong behaviors and negative attitudes in him. I fear these are the friends he is going with. Pray with me that he will feel the weight of his promise to love me forsaking all other while he is away from me and that he will return early (or not go at all) and with renewed love and respect for me in his heart.<P>Thank you all for being here for me. I lift all of you in my prayers each day.<BR>Kim

Hi, it's me again...<BR>H didn't go last night, for which I am etenally grateful. He left briefly with BIL and returned. I had a friend over and we planned to go for coffee, H was very friendly, animated, etc, but sd he might go in for an extra shift at work at 12. I prayed hard because either he really wasn't going to work, or he was to get extra $ needed to take vacation to SA where suspected OW is. I prayed the whole time I was gone and braced myself for him to be gone. but he was home. He woke enough to reach for me and held me during the night. i was so happy...then the beeper went off at 2 o am. Thank God , He closed H's ears to it though it went off repeatedly for 1/2 hour. I checked phone redial this am after seeing H's calling card on nightstand...he had called Colombia while I was gone. And checking the computer , he had checked out his porn site briefly too...first time since tuesday. I can't help but wonder if he called because I left with my friend or if he would have left early to go call her if I stayed home. This am as he was getting ready to leave he said he might worknext weekend (his last before he changes jobs the following week)or not...but he wouldn't be here. I asked where he was going, he said he didn't know. I am heartbroken. PLEAsE, PLEASE<BR>help me pray this week..for H to be rid of these people who try to pull him away from me, for H to listen to the few people who are telling him to get it together, for H to realize what he's thinking about doing and NOT go anywhere. 3 times this week, H said he was going someplace to do some unknown, highly suspicious thing...and 3 times he decided to stay home. I am so afraid my prayers alone won't be strong enough....please join me this week , I am feeling very defeated.<P>thanks,<BR>kim

Dear Lord, Please hear emptyinside's prayers and come into her H's heart. Help him to see where his true happiness and love is, to recognize the temptation of the OW in SA for what it is, and to turn away from her. Help H and soften his heart so that you can come into it. Thank you.<BR>