<BR>Please pray for my health.I had surgery two weeks ago because of the pelvic pains I have during love making.They were really too much so we had to stop making love for a while.<P>Anyway, during the surgery they told my H that the right side of my uterus was swollen and I also had a cyst on my right fallopian tube.So we are going to the doctor on Friday to talk about it some more and hear what the tests say was the cause and what we can do.<P>And this is not at all easy on us because as newly weds I feel we are missing out on the love making we could be enjoying and exploring ourselves.H has been so wonderful and caring and understanding thru all this.But I still feel like it has to end soon because we need to resume our normal life and be a happy couple that makes love anytime they want to and can have spontaneous sex anytime.<P>I pray the Lord that He may see us thru and that whatever happens our health and our marriage be in His hands.<P>Please say a prayer for us.I appreciate you.<BR>Maxini<P>------------------<BR>they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength

praying for you...<P>Incidentally, I know a couple who went thru something similar as newlyweds...after 15 years and 3 kids, she says that while it wasn't a great way to start a marriage in some ways, the tenderness and care they shared thru all that really bonded them...<P>Kathi

<BR>thank you so much for replying.<P>I know that maybe this is a way of strengthen us seeing that we did not really start things right maybe,I mean that he had an EA before he decided to marry me and that kind of wounded me some.Anyway, thru all this I know he truly loves me because he is constantly assuring me and when ever I wonder if maybe he would have been better off with her he is always letting me know that he would rather got thru everything in his life with me that with her or anyone else.So we are bonding and<BR>getting closer. <BR>But I still know that we need the Lord to make it thru like we have made it thru all these other years and thru all these other things.<P>Thank you so much for your encouragement, it gives me hope as far as kids and stuff are concerned.<P>Thanks for your prayers.<BR>Maxini<P>------------------<BR>they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength