I need help and encouragement..AND PRAYERS.....<P>My H has been calling everyday to talk with the kids... will only talk with me if the boys ask him if he wants to talk to me. Otherwise he only calls and asks questions reguarding things he needs to know like finances etc... I have refrained from asking him probing questions...like, divorce...and what he is up to and where he is living. Today he called apparently he is going to refinance his truck and get a better rate at the credit union... asked me if I knew where the regrestration etc was... I wonder if hes getting extra cah for the divorce... He hasn't mentioned selling the house or anything of divorce... except when I asked a few weeks ago if he saw a lawyer... that is when he said yes and that the lawyer told him to be prepared to be screwed... and the lawyer told him to sell the house.<P>Last evening he took the boys to the show... plans to take one son out clothes shopping tomorrow night.<P>I feel like i'm hanging by a thread....trying hard to keep my mouth shut and all...It just kills me everytime he calls he sounds like hes in a great mood.... I guess I sound chipper back.... believe me its a front...my heart is always racing !!!<P>I'm praying all the time for my marriage and all....<P>PLEASE....... I need advice...and prayers I feel like I'm about to loose it !!!!!...........s

Dear Scoick, I will be praying for you. I know how hard it is to go through what you are going through at this time. He hears our prayers and we know that the destruction of marriage and the family is not GOD'S plan. I read your post and my heart goes out to you. I truly know what you are feeling. I will be praying for you as I know PRAYER DOES GET ANSWERED. <BR>Lord, please give this child a vision that is hopeful and the assurance that you are working good in her life. Protect and cover the children. Turn her husband's heart to you and to his family, as that is what you desire. We thank you for your love and peace. Please let this child of yours know that you are working on her behalf and that you are a very big God, capable of taking care of the worst of our human messes. We thank you, Lord for hearing our prayers and for your answers that come in your perfect time. We ask that you bring peace and comfort, wisdom and understanding as she waits for you to work out your plan in her life.

Dear Heavenly Father I lift this prayer request up to you and believe with all my heart that You will answer her prayers and that Your will shall be done. I pray that you give her encouragement and strength in this time of uncertainty and crisis. I pray that somehow her husband will hear your voice and he will allow You to guide him and lead him back to his family. All these things I ask in the name of Jesus.<P>Amen<BR>

I know what you are going through and how you feel like you are going to loose it because there is nothing you can do or say to change your husbands mind. Only God can. You can just pray and pray and give your marriage completely to God. You have to just trust in him. I will keep you marriage and family in my prayers. Hang in there.<BR>