I'm very depressed. My H and I have been separated, he has OW in US(I'm in Canada). I just saw him last week for the first time since he moved out(5 weeks ago), and he said he would be in town for a while(his work requires traveling). But today I found out he went to see OW... I was hoping I would do Plan A and maybe spend some time with him... Also June 19 is our anniversary, not for our marriage, but the day we met. His niece he's staying with told me he might be back next week. I need prayers, that he would be here next Monday, also he realize how much I love him....Please pray for him so he would clear his mind... I've been crying for hours now, I knew he would spend time with her but not this time, after him telling me he would be here... Please pray for me.. I would print out responses and carry with me, so everytime i feel depressed I would look at it.. Thanks.<BR>MF

MF: Please hang in there and know that others are praying for you. My H had an affair 4 yrs ago that resulted in a child. We survived, with alot of counseling (and help from God)and are still together today. It IS possible. Believe and have faith. --D.

{{{{MF}}}} Yes, hang in there. Remember that God loves you and knows your situation. He loves your h too and wants him to return to Him. <BR>Dear Father,<BR> I pray for MF and her h that your will be done in their lives. Give her the strength to seek You first and give her marriage to You. Give her wisdom and courage to take care of herself while waiting in this time period. I pray that her h would be brought to a place where he looks to You for Your guidance and love. Give him the heart that he needs for restoration of this marriage. Help him to block the attacks of the enemy and return to his wife. May his eyes be opened to Your truths and Your word. In Jesus name, Amen.

dear MF<P>((((((mf))))))<P>I to know that this is a very painful time for you....know that you are in my prayers...<P>also go to the womens bible study and post for prayer requests for Tuesday..... s

DSR,hopeful now, and scoick,<P>Thank you so much for the posts. I calmed down a little. My H is supposed to call me today, so I pretend I don't know where he's calling from, and be cheerful and loving.(No room for LBing--since he's with OW now). God will help me to go through this and I know I will be ok. My emotion goes up and down, so I know I will feel down again, but I printed out your messages, and I will look at it every day.<BR>I will post at woman's bible study section as well.<BR>Thank your for praying for me. I really appreciate it.<BR>MF<BR>

MF,<BR>I am so sorry you are having to go through this painful ordeal. I don't think there is anything that hurts worse than your spouse being involved with someone else. Please take care of yourself, and think about good things, especially the good things that are going to come about from God's mighty work in your life!<P>Dear Heavenly Father, thank You for this dear sister, MF. I praise Your holy name, Lord, in the highest. You are almighty, the king of all kings, most worthy of all our praise. Lord, we thank You for the tremendous work You are doing in MF's life, and her husband's life. Praise You, Jesus, You are our miracle maker! Father, this dear sister is crying so, please hold her tightly and dry her tears. Show her Lord how very much You love her. Give her Your peace that passes all understanding, comforting her, bringing her closer to You. Lord, I pray for the restoration of her marriage, and the salvation of her husband. Please send the Holy Spirit to her husband, instructing him in his sleep, as he works, as he walks, as he drives, everywhere! Let this man know without a shadow of a doubt that You are speaking to him, and he must heed Your words. Lord, please bring him to his knees in repentance, turning his heart to You. Lord, we know that only You can turn a heart, and that with You NOTHING is impossible. Lord, please confound and expose her husband, and the OW. Let there be nothing but arguing, angry words and discord between MF's husband and the OW. I pray that MF's husband will lose interest in this OW and the OW will lose interest in MF's husband and will leave him alone. Remove her permanently and forever from MF's husband's life Please Lord. I pray that Your grace overflows onto MF, removing all the pain in her heart. Thank You Father, we praise You and worship You and only You, now and forever more. In Jesus' most precious name, AMEN.

Hi,<P>Just a note to tell you I know your pain! My husband also moved in with OW (11 months ago). Please know that you will be in my prayers. Trying to focus on the Lord each and every day will be a help. "Believe all things; hope all things; endure all things."

AW and spiritclicker,<BR>Thank you for your support. I really really appreciate it, I know you all are in pain too.<BR>I talked to my H yesterday, I didn't do well as I hoped(I'm very bad at Plan Aing). He said he would call me Saturday(because Ow's going to a party and he doesn't) so I will make another try(on Plan A).<BR>I've been reading a book called "power of positive thinking", and it says if you think negatively you act negatively uncontious and get negative results. I know, but it's very hard to think positive right now. I try to think this thing(H went to see OW) happened for good reasons.. like if my H sees OW more then maybe this affair ends quicker...<BR>I will keep you posted.. <BR>Again, thank you so much for the kind words and support. It means alot to me.<BR>You all are in my prayers, hope your pains become less and less, and soon your wish will come true.<BR>MF<p>[This message has been edited by MF (edited June 14, 2000).]