I went into Plan B a month ago. Have had no contact with H not even when he comes to get Dylan. Spoke with him on Tuesday, because my son had the possibility of needing some Surgery. Thank God he does not. H has some major financial problems has written numerous bad checks, he wants to take the money out of his 401K plan. He needs my signature to get it out of there I will not sign. He is very upset by this because he believes that i am letting him go to jail. which i guess i am but he and the OW did this not me, so why should i help him out of it. if we do get a divorce half the 401k plan is mine and that is going to Dylan college fund and that could be all dyaln has. but i dont want to see him in jail. he continues to tell me he doesnt care, he needs her to help pay for some of the bills he tells me taht he needs to talk with me cause im the only one that understands. I pray that I have the strength to continue to tell him no and not to have contact i think its working. I know God works in funny ways sometimes and that he will never leave my side and that gives me comforate in knowing that. Please pray for my and Dylans strength and that a thorn is continually driven between my H and OW. Does anyone have an opinion if I should help him or not with the bad checks.<P>Thanks

No do not help him. Let him suffer the consequences of his sin. Don't enable him to continue in sin. I wouldn't sign anything either. If you read Proverbs 5 - 7 it says how a man who commits adultery may lose his own life. Your husband needs to get to the end of himself, God may be using his financial situation to bring him to brokenness. Don't get in God's way.<P>Dear Lord, I lift up tigger to You. Help her Father to make decisions according to Your will and purpose. Father show her the path You wish her to take. Lord we know you are right beside her throughout this trial, helping her and sustaining her. Help her Lord to discuss it all with You first. Lord, I pray that you will protect tigger and her son Dylan, and I praise You and thank You Lord for your unending love. Please place a thick hedge of thorns around tigger and child, protecting them from all attacks of the enemy. Lord we ask these things in Jesus name, AMEN

AW your prayers are wonderful. I try to read them all, since something in them usually hits home. Again thanks so much. my prayers are with you.

tigger,<BR>I am praying now.......<P>