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I wanted to meet at a nutural location on Friday, H wanted to meet at my house. Said I couldn't do that. Now he suggests hotel. What do I do? Do I go ahead and make it very romantic(candle, wine, etc.)? Do I not go to hotel. Any advice. S will be at sitter all morning but then I will pick him up at noon suggested we take him to a park. Im afraid if I do to much I will be set up for dissapointment.<BR>Thanks in advance. I will keep praying for everyone here. God is answering my prayers, hopefully my marraige will be saved. Im so nervous about all this. Please say a pray for us. He doent want me to get attached, because he doent want to hurt me anymore. Help. <P>Please God help me make the right dicussion and please dont set me up for dissappointment, eventhough I know you will be there with me the whole time. You will feel my pain also if dissappointment does occur. Please continue to drive a thorn between OW and H. Bring my H back to my marraige and my son. Please God help all of my friends her at this site.<P>Amen.<P>

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Pray that GOD will give you hte answer that you are seeking. But, if you are not comfortable with him comming over to the house, or going to a hotel, then don't. Your senses may be trying to tell you something. Suggest to your H, that you meet in a mall, or well populated place, like a park, and THEN you two can discuss what your plans will be. If he doesn't agree with that, then at least you will be safe if he has it in his mind to do something that will hurt you emotionaly or GOD forbid physically.<BR> Things are getting worse here. My wife moved everything she wanted out of our house. She has a new one somewhere in another town, but I don't know where. She doesn't want to see me, talk to me, or let me see our daughter. Last night she told me there is hope for us, but, until there is a "You" (Jim) there can BE NO us. Then she went on to say that she doesn't know WHAT the future holds. That was really the last thing she said to me as far as having any hope for our marriage. She took the refrdigerator, the washer, and the drier, so now I don't have any of these things. GOD is ever faithgful however and keeps telling me to hold on. It will be restored. I'm honestly losing my sanity. It's hard to hold on, it's hard to believe. It's hard to have any hope at all. I'll pray for you on the way to my psychaitrists appointment this evening. Pray for me that I will receive a healing breakthrough and that my wife will see drastic changes in me and want me to come to her new home and live with my family.<BR>Thank you and everyone else for your prayers. It still looks like it will take a miracle to save this marriage. One that I pray for daily.<BR>Thank you and GOD bless you all.<BR>Lone_Knight.

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Here is a second prayer today for you tigger:<P>Dear Heavenly Father, <BR>Thank you for bringing Tigger to this site. I know your word does not return void. I thank you that you are beside tigger as she struggles during these times of uncertainty.<P>Father, thank you that you are ministering to all of us on this website. Continue to bless us, and give us a fellowship that brings you glory.<P>I lift up tigger, and ask you to touch her tonight. Send your healing to her emotions, and give her body peace. Thank you Lord, that you promise to give wisdom to those that ask for it. Thank you for giving tigger wisdom in the daily decisions and interactions with her husband. <P>Father, I ask you to orchestrate her meeting with her husband on Friday, and I ask that there be a hedge of protection around tigger and her marriage. By the blood of Jesus, his sacrifice, I pray that you would cover her from the top of her head to the tips of her toes, because, Lord - nothing - nothing can get through the blood of Jesus.<P>Father, you don't give us a spirit of fear, but power, love and a sound mind. Thank you Lord, that tigger is not fearful about seeing her her husband on Friday. <P>Lord, I am in agreement with tigger for her marriage to be restored, and also Lord, in the Name of Jesus I come against every unholy relationship within this marriage. I loose on this marriage the third strand of the cord. You are the third strand, Lord. And I also say, by the name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names, the name that every knee shall bow - that what God has joined together, let no man put asunder. <P>Father, the OW is in defiance of your word. Father, I ask you to sever this relationship between OW and her husband in the Name of Jesus. Lord, she is trying to be a wedge between tigger and her husband, and I ask you Lord to remove that wedge right now in the name of Jesus.<P>Lord God, I ask you to send this OW away from tigger's husband, just as you sent away the OW from Abraham. Lord, I ask you to cause her husband to be convicted of his unholy relationship, and that he would turn to you for forgiveness, and he would come to know you.<P>Cause this marriage Lord, that you have established to be totally healed. <P>In Jesus Name, the name above all names, the lamb that was sacrificed to conquer all the works of Satan. We claim victory over this matter in His Name, by Jesus sacrifice at Calvary.<P>AMEN!


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