Well everything was going OK had a wonderful time until time to leave. I really didnt want him to leave. Then he couldnt find his truck keys, so he assumed I took them and hide them. We went to dealership and had 2 new ones made. He found them in his truck under the seat. But he flipped out. OW always takes his keys when she thinks he is leaving. He didnt even tell her he was meeting me. He told her he was going to a golf outing, What does this tell me? He doesnt want her to know, she doesnt trust him, they have a rocky relationship if she cant trust him. I got him to sign the paperwork for the lawsuits. The agreement was that the money from the lawsuits would pay the Doctors bill, then a charge card that he charged stuff on that is both are names, then split it in half, but I pay his bounced checks off with his half. He will not agree to that anymore. When I asked for S child support check he went nuts. He knows that it is due on the Fridays that he picks S up. Blamed me because he would be bouncing more checks if he gave me that money. He know has 3 speeding tickets in 3 months. He is still on a path of self distruction. God please help H and continue to drive a thorn between OW and H and restore our marriage. I guess plan B is back into affect, I can not have him play on my emotions or try to hurt me or flip out in front of S. Thanks so much and any advice will sure help. Please keep up the prayers.

Tigger,<BR>Please read the post below by clicking the link. I think it will help you in your situation. I'm praying for you!!!!<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum19/HTML/000133.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum19/HTML/000133.html</A>