Please keep my H in your prayers yesterday he said he thought he need counceling. First time he said this to me. He hasnt done it yet so please pray that he will seek help.<P><BR>I saw H this evening for a few hours and I didnt love bust. YA I am proud of myself. can you tell. H, S and I had a wonderful time together. I feel such a great truimph. H even thanked me for a good time. I have been praying for ya. Hopefully I will keep up the good work. Will see H tomm. he is keeping S while I work. He is taking him over to his mom and dads they havent seen him(H) in 3 months. Thanks for all the support everyone here is wonderful. He still said he needs counceling. Our prayers are working thanks for the help.<P>Dear God,<P>Please restore my marriage. Drive thorns between OW and H. Make H realize that he needs to be a father to his own child and not the OW children. Please help him seek counceling and became a child of yours again. Thanks for for protecting S and myself for providing for us and keeping us save. Please God help each and everyone of my fellow friends here.<P>Amen<P>Thanks<BR>Michelle<p>[This message has been edited by tigger (edited July 20, 2000).]

Hi Michelle,<P>I was just thinking... don't know if it would help or he would see it as pushy... but, maybe you could help your H find a counselor. I know if left to his own devices, my H would have been much less likely to get started in counseling. Would have kept putting it off. You know men and their "I don't need help" attitude sometimes. Just thought maybe you could compile a list of Christian counselors that might fit his needs. Give it to him in a helpful, nonobtrusive way. Maybe say, "You had mentioned you might want counseling, so I put this together for you to take a look at. I want the best for you and maybe one of these people could help you." Don't know your H or how he would take that. Chances are he would be touched that you cared. Just a thought. <P>Dear Heavenly Father,<P>I pray for Michelle. I pray that you will restore her marriage. Which is really YOUR marriage, Lord. I thank you for her faith and I thank you God for taking care of her. You are so faithful to us and we praise you. There is none like you, Lord. <P>I pray for Michelle's husband that you will convict him of his need for you. I pray that he will seek godly counsel and that whoever you bring into his life will be filled with wisdom. I pray you will be preparing a counselor for him even now, who will help him in dealing with his issues and who will help him to recommit to his marriage. <P>Lord, he is not where you want him to be. He should be with his wife and his own child. Make this a heavy weight on his heart. I pray that every time he looks at those other children (though you love them too, Lord) that he will see the face of his own child and be filled with grief over not being with his child. Unveil his eyes, Lord. Show him how wrong he is and how he is letting Satan control his life. Every day he is with the OW and her children is a day he has given victory to Satan. Show him this. Let there be no sugar-coating in his mind as to exactly what he is doing. <P>Be with Michelle today, Lord. Fill her with your peace. Remind her that you are in control even when the situation seems out of contol. You have a plan for her. Hold her in your hand today, Lord. In Jesus'name I pray these things, Amen.

Michelle, I am praying for you and your marriage.