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My wife and I have split(in April) after being together for 12 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old son. Things between us are getting better, but she kept everything inside, and she has TONS of resentment towards me. We still love each other,(and I am so "in love with her) but she says she is just not "in love with me". When she left she blamed me for everything, but now she is starting to realize her part in the relationship problems. Is there anything I can do, or say to help her with this hurt/pent up anger that she is going through? I feel that if she shoves it aside, it won't go away and she will always resent me. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks<BR>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by andrewsdad:<BR><B>My wife and I have split(in April) after being together for 12 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old son. Things between us are getting better, but she kept everything inside, and she has TONS of resentment towards me. We still love each other,(and I am so "in love with her) but she says she is just not "in love with me". When she left she blamed me for everything, but now she is starting to realize her part in the relationship problems. Is there anything I can do, or say to help her with this hurt/pent up anger that she is going through? I feel that if she shoves it aside, it won't go away and she will always resent me. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Welcome, how'd you find this site? There's a wealth of information about rebuilding marriages. Get connected with Plan A right now. It's very positive stuff about working on yourself to improve the marriage.<P>"In love" comes and goes. You need to work at it. Read the Harley stuff. Some things seem forced and artificial at first. Keep your chin up. You'll be fine.<P><P>------------------<BR>Belle, Domestic Goddess
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