My husband and I have been separated for 7 months now. We have been married for 2 years and 3 months. He left me a year and 7 months into our marriage. He wants a divorce. I pray everday that God intervenes by saving this marriage. We dated almost 8 year before we got married. He went through counselling for 8 months. He doesn't want to see another counselling because he feels she couldn't help us. He says we don't communicate well and are incompatible. Before we separated he would lock himself in our spare bedroom. I couldn't communicate with him. He now lives with his parents and I live on my own now. He works long hours, and is unhappy at work. He doesn't talk to anyone about our relationship. When he comes home from work he goes into his room. He is on the computer a lot. In the past he would cry when we got together. I couldn't talk to him long because he would start to cry. I couldn't see him for very long because he would start to feel uncomfortable around me. We now talk on the internet and we talk on the phone sometimes. He doesn't feel we can get back together. He use to be verbally abuse and controlling in our relationship. Please pray for us. I can use some support and advice. I will keep you all in my prays too since I check the site often.

My prayers are with you. At least you are comunicating. Keep that up.

Thanks for replying. I really appreciate it. Yes I can use a lot of prays. I am also leaving it in God's hands. I will keep you in my prays. I really hope you can save your marriage. May God give you confidence, inner peace, and strengh.