Please pray for h and myself. We've been separated for 20 months and in that time I have come to the realization that God is for us and hates divorce. I've been working on myself and my relationship with God and have a sort of peace about the whole situation. MY h on the other hand has not worked thru anything (I think) and has not sought the wise counsel of a Christian Counselor. I know he is depressed and confused and can't accept any responsibility as of yet (even though I think I was a huge reason for the problems). But.... I told h I thought he should talk to someone and I did find a Christian Center so.... I pray that this is his angel and message is from God and my h has an open heart and mind. waiting4ever

my prayers are with you. I to have found my way back to God. My H has not he is really troubled. Please pray for us also.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by tigger:<BR><B>my prayers are with you. I to have found my way back to God. My H has not he is really troubled. Please pray for us also.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR>Tigger, I am praying for you and your h right now, I know from experience in the word that God is for us and even though I am a baby Christian and can't quote anything to you, I know God hears our heartfelt prayers. Keep the faith LAP<BR>

HI, My H affair has been going on almost a year I found out 7 months ago. Our son turned 1 in Aug, H turned 30 in Oct having a baby and turning 30 frecked him out. Im to the point where im going forward with my life. If God brings him back so be it. Thats what I would like, but he needs to come back the man that he was not what he is now or better yet someone improved. Thanks so much for you prayers Ill keep you in mine.

Tigger, sorry to hear about the A, the age thing does have a tendency to freak the guys out... my h is 43 and I too believe that a large part of our problems have to do with the mid-life crisis. We've been separated for 20 months now and like I said, it actually has been a blessing for me, I found God and He LOVES me!! Hitting rock bottom can be a good thing if we let God lift us up again and I pray that our h's will hit the bottom and turn to God and come out of the muck better men! Keep the Faith LAP<BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by tigger:<BR><B>HI, My H affair has been going on almost a year I found out 7 months ago. Our son turned 1 in Aug, H turned 30 in Oct having a baby and turning 30 frecked him out. Im to the point where im going forward with my life. If God brings him back so be it. Thats what I would like, but he needs to come back the man that he was not what he is now or better yet someone improved. Thanks so much for you prayers Ill keep you in mine. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>

[.. my h is 43 and I too believe that a large part of our problems have to do with the mid-life crisis. <BR> My h turned 40 this Jan, and he has all the symptoms except there is not an affair. <BR>I read a book by a Christian author' Conway\<BR>called your husbands mid-life crisis that I found very helpful. My h is still in our home but doesn't love me, wants to leave, can't because of our children. I too am getting closer to God, and h is slipping farther away........so sad. you are in my prayers<P>------------------<BR>change........the most consistant thing in our lives

Carol14 and Tigger-- it's Monday morning and I'm back at work and I am praying that God sees our hurt and responds with loving arms that will hold us as we wait. And that He will send an Angels into the lives of our husbands who will guide them and give them the right messages, not the messages of the world but those of His word that uphold the marriage as a covenant!!!! May you both feel peace today and all week. IJN...LAP<P>PS I am following some of the board titled Women's Study (I think) I'll see you there!