I have been married for almost 3 yrs and have a 4mo old daughter. My marriage was great for the first two years, but lately things have begun to bother me. My husband (who has a college degree) refuses to work and has not worked in 3 yrs. I am left to support our family as well as pay his child support for his other daughter. I have read Harley's book, but my H refuses. He also refuses counselling. I have tried to bring up the topic in a kind, supportive way but no matter what I do he will not discuss it..I want a home for our child, health insurance for her, and so many things we could have if he would work. I don't understand it and he won't explain. I make a good living and have a good job, but I cannot stay home with my baby. I feel so, so used, and I have been thinking of leaving I am so frustrated with his refusal to work or communicate with me. I have prayed, and now i ask for your prayers as well.

Amen and God bless you <BR>Consider it done.<p>[This message has been edited by FeelingStupid (edited October 09, 2000).]