I to have been leaning on prayer as I know I am unable to do anything about this situation. my husband has had 2 affairs in 36 yrs one after 20 years and one 6 monthsd ago. The problem is this last one has been almost impossible to get around. We are unable to relocate becaause of job structure and service time on job 33 years. Husband is boss and had affair with a clerk in office . It is samll office so he is often alone with her everyday. He says he is not even being friendly anymore but he has great mood swings at home from loving and convincing to mopeing and rejecting any affections I offer. I love this man with all my heart and have never been unfaithful to him. He says he does not know why he did it , she was just having so much troble at home and she kept telling everyone about it and crying because she wanted a divorce from her h and he thought he could help her!!!! He helped alright helped me to a trip that i never htought i would have to take. this has been worse than a death. IO almost wish he would have died instead of dong this decietful thing to me. Anyway, he says there is no way he can completely avoid her as he has to work with her. I fel this is too much temptation for him everyday to face. He says he disagrees and that I should believee him. I reminded him that I have always believed him but that it is very hard now. I do not know how much longer I can last!!! I have to ask GOD every hour for strength not to break down and completely withdraw from the world. I need someone else to join in prayer as I feel like mine are not being heard.

Your prayers are being heard, be sure of it, the answer might be to wait, to let God work on the situation, I am not the most eloquent prayer person but I pray that God gives you the strength to withstand this attack against your marriage. Dear Lord, send 36 your guardian angels, enfold her in your loving protective arms, let her know that with you ALL things are possible including a renewed relationship with her h. IJN Amen. Join the gals on the Women's Bible Study forum for weekly prayers. It has done me a world of good. I thank and PRAISE God for leading me to the support of these women... I know you will find it helpful too. Peace to you... your sister in Christ LAP

Your prayers are being answered, maybe not to your liking..but God is hearing you. My husband got on the internet, and into the sex chat lines..had an affair and broke my heart. He has moved from the house, but still continues to call me and come over. It has been four months, and I too, thought God was not hearing my plea. But He has opened a new insight to me, knowing myself better, and liking myself. I feel sorry for H however, God has given us free will, and it is up to us to decide what to do with this free will. God will give you strength, and peace...His plan may be different than yours, but His plan is the only way...We know He loves us and will not give us more than we can bear. Please ask him to strength your faith, and no matter what put both feet in the spiritual world, you can not walk with one in the world and the other in the spiritual world. Go to church, talk to a counselor there....keep praying, asking God to reveal His plan for you. I will keep praying for you.<P><BR>Kathie (Vincent)

God does answer our prayers in his own prayers. My prayers are with you.