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Please pray for my marriage, pray my H will get the counseling he so desperately needs for himself and for us. Pray that we get the help to help our marriage work before its too late. Pray that H and teenage sons communication gets better. Pray for teenage son who is about to become a father himself and who wants to marry his girlfriend. Pray that i will have the strength to see all this through and make the right decisions. I know this is a marriage support group only but i need help in all directions. would like to hear from anyone else who's had a troubled marriage and a pregnant teenager. Pray that i do right by my other teenager and focus on him throughout this whole mess.
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Dear God:<P>Please be with this woman and her family. Please help guide them in your ways. I would pray that you give each the strength to seek the help they need. Please allow this mother and father to help both their children through this time and with their individual needs as well. Please give them the direction as parents to show the examples that will help each of their children in their own lives and also their relationship with their parents. Bless each one and have mercy on them. Amen.
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I fit in the category of having had pregnant teens in the house. You can write to me at eramhoff@home.com if you desire.<P>Father, we lift this family into your arms and ask that you place an umbrella shield around their hearts, minds and tongues so that they can turn to one another for support rather than to attack one another. Bind their hearts together and srengthen them. Increase their hunger to know you in a mighty way and give them courage to take everything to you. Give this mom wisdom in regards to her own baby who is now going to have a baby. You are the mighty physician Lord. Clean out their emotional wounds and pour your disinfectant of love abundantly. You say that love covers a multitude of sins Father and that of all the things that last, love is the greatest. Shower this family with your love so that they in turn can shower each other with the same love that you give them. IJN, Amen.
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Confused spouse,<P>I will be praying for your family. I have teenage promblems also. I pray I don't become a grandmother any times soon because<BR>I have a lot more to learn first. I also have a 6 and 8 year old to teach so hopefully their lifes will be God centered.<BR>It is hard when we realize we messed up so <BR>bad with our children. Turn to the Lord to <BR>help your grown children. Remember it is NEVER too late for God. Anything is possible for God. Keep our eyes on Him. Believe I know it is hard. I couldn't do it until I got help from this web site <A HREF="http://www.restorem.org" TARGET=_blank>www.restorem.org</A> <BR>If you haven't tried it before I hope you do. The testimonies are very encourageing. <BR>May God bless your family,<BR>gentle
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Thank you for your prayers Madeline, SueB and Gentle. <P>SueB, i would like to email you and will write soon, thank you.<P>Gentle, i looked up your website and read some of the stories. I've order one book and look forward to reading it. I pray that my life works out as some of those peoples lives did. Our divorce is up on December 15 and I don't see it going any other way until H gets help with other issues (alcohol and depression). He blames me for everything including not getting over his affair and not letting go of resentment over it. I asked for reassurance(as you told Faithfulwife in post) and told him i needed to be able to check up on him alittle (like cell phone bill) and he refused saying it was all my problem. How do I go on from there? Since I won't accept him on his terms H has asked not to call him and just to leave him alone. Thats what i'm doing but i need closure, I need the D. Tomorrow is 1 year from Discovery of A. Keep praying for me.<BR>Thanks.<BR>
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Confused spouse,<P>I truly thank the Lord that you ordered the book. That was one of my prayers for you.The <BR>book will answer a lot of your questions about A, and forgiveness. God is our judge even your husbands. God wants you to have unconditional love for your husband. This love only comes from God. Forgiveness also<BR>comes from God. He will help you forgive him.<BR>I know it is hard but you must do it Gods way.Be thankful you are not divorced yet.<BR>I will being praying for you to accept Gods will on marriage. <BR>Gentle<p>[This message has been edited by gentle (edited November 01, 2000).]
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we are praying for you and please keep us posted<P>tks<P>------------------<BR>liz
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