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#338209 04/08/01 10:51 PM
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#338210 04/09/01 07:25 AM
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Dear LostNco,<BR>I will pray for you too. Go to this web site<BR>Restorem.org/home.html <BR>This may help. Any counseling? Are you still living together? What are the things he says as his reasons for wanting to d? We will lift you up. Ted ><>

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Lost,<P>I will be praying for you. Go to the site Ted mentioned. God really spoke to me thru this site and teh book. Read teh testimonies they will give you hope.<P>gentle

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#338213 04/11/01 07:26 AM
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God is leading you on a wonderful jorney of healing. It feels like hell on earth right now. Just watch your words. You have the power to create life or death with the words you speak. Choose life. Choose the life of your marriage, your health and the man you married (who probably looks really bad to you in a lot of ways right now) GOD WILL HEAL YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU CHOOSE HIM THIS VERY MOMENT. Trust. Trust God. Trust. You are scared. I wish I could find the perfect pill for fear. My wife Patty has lived with fear all of her life. It has prevented us from physical reconciliation. We are moving closer but I have to say that I mess up all of the time even now when I am super sensative to all of these issues. As Gary Smally said on a marriage video, guys are just clueless sometimes. We don't mean to hurt you, we just don't think the same way.<BR>Adultry... He's running from working on the relationship. Hard to think about it that way but he is. It's not because you did anything wrong. He has to admit his own failures of not being attentive to your heart. Pray that he will see this and be a real man and admit it. He has to own everything as Eph. 5 says. He is to live as though he would die for you. He will as you forgive him and ask him to truely seek God. It's not your fault. We are praying for you. Ted ><>

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I also go to that site, restorem.org. It's a great site.<BR>I've been separated from my hub for 2 1/2 months and have been praying constantly. I can't wait for the day when he comes home for good. But at times it is very hard.<P>I am requesting prayer for me & my husband too.<BR>I pray for him to be saved again and for me to have patience and faith. I pray he will be home by Easter.<BR>Thank you Lord!


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